What is love to me and to you??
Love is such a good thing , when you love someone you really care about them , you want to be with that person you love the most , see them , talk to them , listen to what they have to say.
You care about there health , of course sometimes you two might stay up all night till morning just to speak with eachother. Love does make you do crazy things but you learn from it , learn learn from your mistakes and pass relationships , what you or that person has done in the pass to make you happy or mad or sad. e.c.t.
You get the idea , love is something you can't buy , it's something you have to work for over time , like let's say you meet this stranger , you don't even know them yet , but then you find out that you kinda like them. Then you want to get to know more about that person , her Zodiac sign , when's there birthday , where they go to school at or where they go to work at. e.c.t.
You get to know more about them and you guys most likly find things in common and if you both have the same Zodiac sign it makes things easyer because your both like Virgos and you get along very well.....you still do even if you both have different Zodiac signs.
Now if your in a long distance relationship it's hard but you can (You both can get through it and make it last). I know this cause i been in long distance relationships before , the first ex he was a bad boy and he cheated on me and i'm glad my friend who is older way much older then me , cause he has been through it all he once was of course like my ex was. But after a long period of time you learn and you change and you become a better woman or man.
My second ex was good and he was nice and all , but now i have been dating this guy i love so much for a few months now and he is perfect and so far everything is going good and the first day we became best friends there was spark between us.
That first day we talked almost 24 hours striaght with maybe three very short breaks inbetween.
Now as you can tell my relationship is going pretty well and i know weather your in a long distance relationship like me or you live in the same state or country i know yours can work out.
There is always a way , like you may have heard before there's always two sides to a coin.
I think even through like let's say someone like me who is a Virgo wanted to date a Leo , it would be a bit hard cause there alittle messy but you can try to get it to work out. The only Leos i live with are my mom and dad. It's not easy but us Virgos or most of us Virgos like a clean and nice place. I have been researching a lot during this past year and i also have learned a lot from my pass expiences with my ex-s and what i or they have done that killed the relationship that we had.
But even through both of my ex-s want me back i will not take them back cause i have moved on and the boyfriend i have now is just right for me , he treats me a lot better then my first ex did.
He really cares about my health and i care a lot about his too , and we do talk everynight and sometimes in the morning and afternoon. If you just started dating someone and this person that is your first depending on the age , it may last a real long time if you put a lot of effort in to it , if doesn't work out because maybe he or she cheated on you then it's your choice on do you believe in this quot or not. ("Once a cheater always a cheater") I how ever don't believe that cause sometimes we do make mistakes , who doesn't right?
I did give him a second chance but he messed that chance up again so if you wanna give him or her another chance go for it , but don't give a third chance cause a second chance should be good enough wouldn't you agree with me? Relationships are not meant to be easy but the more you show how much your willing to go through or do just to keep it going , that's the point.
Now i know of course you guys may come into the stage of where a fight happens but really there is no need for fighting about something , you should never yell , nag , boss him or her around , hit eachother or act like your teens fighting over something that you don't need to fight about.
You can talk it out , you just have to say in a common voice when your both stop fighting or yelling , "I don't like how we fight over these little things" or "Timmothy i don't like how this little thing is making us fight like childen." After you say that give him or her a few minutes to get calm and stay calm and give them a chance to talk too , but you must always stay calm.
I will be writing my own blogs about all types of stuff and about relationships so i hope this blog for today helped at least 90% of you guys who are in a relationship or just getting into one. e.c.t.
Please follow my blog for more updates and more to come very very soon and thankyou for taking the time to read this blog and see if it was helpful to you or too both of you and have a nice day thankyou very much.
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